Author: Nathalie Laurents

I’ve talked before about love being an action. Some people would would call it showing love; I prefer “doing love.” Have you ever asked yourself, What love do I do? I’ll give you an example, Some people are service-oriented. They help others, and it’s in their nature. So, a person like that might do their…

Ah, love. So natural, so wonderful. We just fall in love, right? And then, everything is wonderful. And then, what? We feel love for our parents, grandparents, children, neighbors, friends, lovers, and so on. On the surface that love may look the same — we use the same word, after all — but when we…

Yep, that’s what I said (in the previous post), an agreement. Yes, like a contract. How many times have you rolled your eyes and grudgingly washed the dishes, or cleaned the cat box, or paid for dinner, or. . . ? An agreement in a relationship helps create boundaries, establish expectations, and prevent those eye-rolling…

In the previous post, we indulged in a little story time. How was it? All that fantasizing and story telling get your juices flowing and your heart a-flutter? You’ve worked a few things out now and you‘re ready to dip your finger in the pie? Now, you have to take all that fun stuff and…

In the previous post, I dropped a bomb: Yes, you have to make actual decisions about the relationship you want. Some of you may be thinking, But it takes the magic away. Let’s dive into a picture: Don’t they look happy, as in happily-ever-after? We looked at some different kinds of relationships you could have,…

What do you want in a relationship? Do you want a fit, blue eyed hunk? Maybe a cute, nice-assed brunette who loves football? How about a doctor, a CEO, or maybe a chef? Do you picture 2.5 children, a lovely two-story house with big trees and a yard for the dog (or cat)? Here is…

They met over the fuji apples at the grocery store. He wanted the smaller apple on top of the pile and she wanted the bigger apple at arms length. They reached, brushed hands, and instantly knew that had found something special – just the way you know.  The chemistry, the magnetism, the desire, breathless, butterflies….