Have you ever just stopped and wondered what it would be like to worship your lover? What would you do? Where would you start? How would you begin? Do you know all of their secret places, you know, those toe-curling places that make them catch their breath or let out a quiet little moan?
Do you know how hard or soft they like their neck, lips, or nipples nibbled? Do ear lobe kisses make them melt? Any sweet spots down the arms? How about the hands and fingers? Is one side more sensitive than the other? Are they ticklish? What happens when you run your tongue down their stomach and along their inner thigh? Do they want you to bite them? Is it time?
What are the things you would enjoy doing to your lover during a worshipping? Would they like it too?
If you don’t know the answers to these questions it’s is time to find out! Both you as the worshipped and you as the worshipper should know what your/their body desires — and how fun it is to find, explore, and discover the answers. Ask your lover what is off limits (at least for now!) and then go for it. Not every intimate moment needs to be the one. Practice, practice, practice! Lick them up and down, nibble, bite, spank, squeeze, kiss. Listen. They will tell you what you need to know, whether it be with words, moans, laughs, tears, squirms, or more.
Knowing your own body is extremely useful in helping your lover get to know it too, but as the lover, don’t do just what you think you were told; make sure you understand and learn how to do it — by doing and practicing. Who knows? You may help your lover discover new ecstasies that they knew nothing about. After all, there are some places we just can’t explore on our own.
Being able to worship your lover is a great gift for them, for yourself, and for your relationship. It is an act of love, adoration, and appreciation that can help them feel just that — loved, adored and appreciated.
Nathalie